The Bitter Ex

I know I shouldn't be blogging about breakup and separation at a day like this, but I can't help it. I just talked to Mench (not her real name of course) who was "abandoned" by her husband for another woman. Mench always stressed that she had been battered, abandoned and their children didn't get any support, not a cent from her philandering husband.

So to cut to the chase, I asked her "Have you moved on?" She said "What kind of a question is that?" "It's an important question. If he's happy now, you should be happy too," I said. "It's not about letting go and moving on," she answered back. "Then what is it all about?" I quizzed.

I just don't get it Mench. You know he's not coming back so why are you holding on? You said that things are going for you, so why are you so bitter? It's not even about the money because you have more than your ex's. Is it about your bloated ego? Pride? Envy? Why do you want to be with somebody who doesn't love you anymore? Where did your self-respect go?

Moving Out and Moving On

I think some people get confused with "out" and "on". It can affect the whole situation if this is not clear to the people involved if they just moved out of the situation and hasn't really moved on. Do you get the drift?

I think moving out precedes moving on or can you move on without moving out? Geez am getting confused now. Hahahaha.

Okay, I'll put this in perspective.
















*in my next blog*